It’s Day 2 of our Proverbs 31 Woman Bible Study!
Today, we’re going to dig into Proverbs 31:10:
Who can find a virtuous wife?
For her worth is far above rubies.
In yesterday’s lesson, we learned being a Proverbs 31 Woman isn’t about deeds, but character. You can get caught up with yesterday’s lesson here!
Today’s video lesson we will dig into the meaning of the word “virtuous.” (And by the way, what’s so special about rubies?) It’s important to have a fundamental understanding of this word because it’s the foundation of all we will learn about the Proverbs 31 Woman, during our bible study time together.
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Have you ever really thought about what the word VIRTUOUS really means? I think you might be pleasantly surprised at its meaning!
Tune into today’s video lesson!
Bible Study Notes
- The word “virtuous” is the masculine noun “valor.” It’s used synonymously with describing the valor of a man!
- The Proverbs 31 Woman is like silk over steel – feminine on the outside, strong of Godly character on the inside. (Remind you, any, of yesterday’s lesson?)
- Forget about diamonds! They might be a girl’s best friend, but rubies are PRICELESS and so are you!
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Proverbs 31 Woman Bible Study – Day 2
(The Meaning Of Virtuous)
The word “virtuous” is the Hebrew word “chayil”
It is a masculine noun that means:
- valor
- strength like a tree bearing fruit
- fitness
- health
- integrity
- uprightness
- to bring riches
I find it fascinating that God would use the same word to describe the valor of a man, to describe the virtue of a woman!
Now, this doesn’t mean we should be like men or masculine in any way, instead we should focus our character on being synonymous with the meaning of this word. Like I mentioned in yesterday’s teaching, our focus isn’t on the deeds of the Proverbs 31 woman, but on her character.
So, ask yourself – how can I grow my character be virtuous (substitute the above meanings here)?
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She Is Silk Over Steel
I’m going to be bold and say the Proverbs 31 Woman is a woman who is silk over steel.
Her character and qualities are of strength, fitness, health, integrity, uprightness, and brings riches. Yet on the outside, she’s as feminine as silk – like a silk blouse or dress.
She is 100% woman. . . Feminine on the outside and stable in her very being (soul and spirit).
This is what your aim should be – strong, holy, Godly character, while still embracing and living in your beautiful femininity. God created women to be just like like this – Silk Over Steel!
Related: The Proverbs 31 Woman As You’ve Never Seen Her
Her Price Is Far Above Rubies
The last part of this scripture talks about the Proverbs 31 Woman’s price being far above rubies.
Did you know, in Biblical times, diamonds were the least valued gemstone? Rubies had the greatest value and highest commodity of any gemstone. They were considered the “creme de la creme” of gemstones and highly sought after by the wealthiest of people.
In our day and time, we place a high value on diamonds. Women go ga-ga for a diamond ring and will show it off to the world!
And to think, rubies are where the true value is found.
Diamonds might be a girl’s best friend, but rubies are priceless!
Take for a moment and consider your worth and value. . .
You are fearfully and wonderfully made! (Psalm 139:14)
You are so important that God created great plans for you, while you were in your mother’s womb! (Jeremiah 29:11)
You are so precious to God that He sings and rejoices over you! (Zephaniah 3:17)
Think for just a moment about the worth and value you bring to your family, friends, and the world as a whole!
You. Are. Priceless, my dearest SisterFriend!
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I pray today’s lesson blessed you BIG! We have so much more to glean and learn in our Proverbs 31 Woman Bible Study together!
Be sure to check out the next lesson in The Proverbs 31 Woman Bible Study Series! We’re going to talk about becoming that “good thing” to our husbands and why this is so important to him and our marriage.
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Two big things we learned today: The true meaning of “virtuous” and the value of rubies. How does this change your understanding of what it means to be a Virtuous Woman? I’d love to hear your thoughts! You can chime in, by clicking here!
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I didn’t know the meaning of “virtuos” till today. It’s no wonder why we are able to carry and take on so much. I think back on situations I went through that should had broke me but someh ow I kept going. God kept me but he knew what he put in us as women to enable us to withstand whatever came our way.
So true Iris. I can remember looking back on things I have been thru and being told that the Lord picks his strongest soldiers for the hardest battles, and after reading todays lesson, just a reminder that WE are strong we can endure so much pressure getting hit with lifes issues as hard as “steel” and yet still remain as delicate as a “silk” scarf!!! I looooove It!
Just completed day 2. So grateful for the reminder of my value, however I’m prayerful about the things I need to work on.
After being told I was worthless and would never amount to nothing , I feel more empowered through today’s study
I believe I can become a more virtuous woman when it comes to worrying and having anxiety. I feel I need to trust God more in these areas of my life where I cannot control.
Priceless. What does this really mean? The value is so great it cannot be measured. To think our value is so great to God that it cannot be measured is mind blowing. And to think society and the enemy does everything they can to strip us of this value.
Day 2 is amazing! I see a virtuous P31 woman being strong, prepared, a beautiful soul, kind, but also one filled with wisdom & integrity. Which gives her value that is like rubies. I love this & her example. Makes you want to be more like her. 🙂
Thank you for sharing this wonderful Bible Study with us. WOW! I’ve been in church all my life and never really studied this passage like this before. It’s so sad how we as women allow society to tell us what is popular to wear, do, think, etc. When we should be turning to the Word of God and see what He says we should do, be, act, etc. I really like your analogy “Steel on the inside and silk on the outside”. It is so true when we stop and think how strong God has created us to be and able to endure so much (when we rely on Him). Blessings.
Hi Ronda! Yes…it’s comforting to know we can go to the Word of God and hey his perfect viewpoint on us, as Women!
So glad you’re here!
I enjoyed Bible study. It’s good to know your worth because so many women have been told that they are worthless. And to know that God thinks you are worth far more than rubies. Is mind blowing…
Mind blowing, isn’t it Sabrina!
Our value is PRICELESS!!
Thanks for commenting! I’m so glad you’re here!
A Virtuous Woman is To serve God with all of my heart mine is soul. Respect your husband teach your children how to love one another. Care for your body healthy foods, Use your time wisely, Beauty that only comes from inner beauty and Christ. That’s my meaning of A Virtuous Woman
I am enjoying the lesson, a lot need to be changed, I am doing some but I know I can do better
I recently was married but became single .I am starting a journey but this journey as a single woman mother of a special needs child. I want to build myself as the woman god intended for me to be and I am so blessed to come across this beautiful bible study which will help make a difference in my life i am ready for change.
Wow this brought tears to my eyes to know how much God loves me. My worth is far above rubies. It’s truly amazing how much God has poured into woman. The strength that a woman carries. I love my Father. I enjoyed today’s bible study. Thank you!
I love love love loooooove this verse. For so long I myselfl struggled with finding my WORTH. I used to find myself adjusting to “fit in” as opposed to being the woman I knew I once (always) was. I can remember my mom saying women are stronger than some men allow them to be and to never devalue myself….. in short, this verse is a reminder that we are the strength that others draw from. Without us there would be no “them” that is strength in its own. Women are strong, prepared, caring loving , have a lot of weight on us to carr for others because people depend on the woman for sooooo much. I vould ramble on and on about this verse. Ia m strong but delicate i am wise but forever learning more , I am precious and after…no beginning this day I know my value am priceless.
This verseis on sticky notes in random places now
Sticky notes for the win!!
As I was reading verse 10 I was thinking is this virtuous woman hard to find and are men intimidated by her?
Then you went on to explain what virtuous meant. The virtue of a woman but the valor of men. I was blown away. And then learning that gemstones were more valuable than diamonds. Thank you for that insight.
My prayer for today:
Please Lord don’t ever let me forget my worth. I am made in your image and your Spirit dwells in me. Help me to stand strong (steel) in my belief but humble (silk) in my speech. Help me to live a life that exemplifies You. In Jesus’ name I pray. Amen
I just finished day 2 of this bible study it has been eye opener for me I need to work on some things but I’m not perfect I strive for progress everyday I want to be a virtuous woman I know that I’m strong and I know I have a purpose I also have the verses you said printed out in my room to remind me that there is a plan for my life i hope to be a better wife and mom so glad I’m here
Im loving this study!! I do feel strong inside, I would describe it as more like a peace when stuggles come about. I feel i approach them more level headed and dont freak out like i had in years past.
Just finished Day 2. I’m so far behind. This Bible study reminds me of where my priorities need to be. God first!! I admit I have fallen out of HIs word over the last few years. Having someone to check in with holds me accountable and I really need that. I know that when this is over, I will be the virtuous woman God intended me to be. Keep giving the Hebrew words and their meaning. Thank you Angelica for taking time to do this.
A late start is better than no start! You’re on the right track!
Yes today’s lesson was on point made me question my worth as to how I carried myself, to the point of always second guessing, am I good enough, I learned that yes I am , and if I can start to think the way that Jesus said I am I can start living my true purpose. I love the phrase “silk over steel”. Thank you ,thank you for a great lesson today. I look forward for growth.
My pleasure!
Such an eye opening devotion today. Knowing that a masculine noun was used to describe the virtuous woman is amazing. It make me look at her in a different light.
Eye opening isn’t it?