It’s Day 4 of our Proverbs 31 Woman Bible Study!
Today, we’re going to dig into Proverbs 31:13:
She seeks wool and flax,
And willingly works with her hands.
In yesterday’s lesson, we learned being a Proverbs 31 Woman is about bringing goodness to our husbands and how valuable and precious we are to God, our family, and the Body of Christ. You can get caught up with yesterday’s lesson here!
Today’s video lesson we will look at what it means to be a willing, eager worker, as well as our attitude about work. Our perspective of work matters to God. It helps to shape and define our individual purpose and calling. The Proverbs 31 Woman is a woman who “works,” just not in the way the world views it.
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Let me ask you this. . .
Are you a willing, eager Worker? Have you ever wondered what that means and how you can cultivate those characteristics?
Let’s dig in and discover the true meaning of being a willing, eager worker! You may be pleasantly surprised. . .
Tune into today’s video lesson!
Bible Study Notes
- Wool and flax have very symbolic and practical uses in this passage of scripture. They were very valuable and versatile and a part of everyday life in biblical times.
- Being a willing, eager worker comes with recognizing that work is a gift from God. He wants us to find pleasure in our work.
- As we work, we want to find what is best (according to God) for our family and will bring value to their lives.
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Proverbs 31 Woman Bible Study – Day 4
(A Willing, Eager Worker)
So, let’s look at wool and flax and why these would be important concepts in this scripture.
Wool and flax were the two most important materials, in biblical times. They provided clothing, garments, fabrics for personal and home use, and the ability to use these items for trade and commerce.
Wool was a highly traded material in biblical times. It is actually one of the oldest materials used to make clothing, garments, fabrics, and other traded goods.
Flax is the material used to make linen. We see linen mentioned all throughout scripture:
- Jesus buried in fine linen
- Priests wore linen
- It is used in many analogies in the books of Proverbs and Psalms
Here’s something interesting to note about the harvesting of flax – they would take the entire plant (roots and all) out of the ground, then lay out on roof tops to dry, so it could be – closest to the sun.
This chore was especially observed for women because of the delicacy of this job. The roots were very delicate needed to be preserved. Traditionally, only women’s hands could handle and perform this task, as men would be too rough with the plant.
One final thing about flax. . .
From this plant could be made two kinds of linen:
- Fine and almost see-through, like silk. This was called “fine linen.” Royal people, the wealthy, and priests usually wore this. It was also used in the Temple and Tabernacle.
- Thick and hard. This was often used as carpet in homes.
As you can see, flax has tons of versatility and uses! This woman sought after the most versatile, most used, and highest commodity fabrics to work with willingly and eagerly.
Willing, Eager Worker
We are told she worked willing with her hands, using wool and flax. Here’s a question to ask yourself. . .
Am I a willing, eager worker?
Am I willing and eager to find the best for my family and then put my hands to work with it? (Like the Proverbs 31 Woman?)
Here’s one caveat. . .
Colossians 3:23 tells us that we are to work as we are working unto the Lord.
Our focus is to be on God – not our husband, family, children, or anyone else.
(This is where it gets a little bit tricky.)
Yes, we want them to be happy with our work for them. But let’s face it, sometimes our families can be thankless for the work we do for them. If we are relying upon their thankfulness or praise for our work, we can become very disappointed and disillusioned. This is where we have to remember who we ultimately work for – God and Him, alone.
We also want to remember that work is a gift.
Ecclesiastes 3:13 tells us – we should take pleasure in our work, as this is a gift from God.
In other words, God wants us to find work that is enjoyable and pleasurable. Work is indeed a gift. It is His gift to us.
Regardless of the work you do (homemaker, work outside of the home), God’s gift to us is, in fact, this work and we should enjoy it!
It’s a whole lot easier to be a willing, eager worker, when the work you do is enjoyable, wouldn’t you agree?
Now granted, not all work is fun.
Scrubbing toilets, cleaning poopy diapers, and tending to children with projectile vomit is not fun. At. All.
(Can I get a witness?)
I’m sure there are a number of tasks we can add to this list of not-so-fun-or-enjoyable-work.
However, this is where we go back to Colossians 3:23, and remember who we are working for. We also need to shift our focus about our work.
- Scrubbing toilets means that I have a home with indoor plumbing and people in it, whom I love dearly.
- Poopy diapers means I’ve been blessed to be a mother, either by birth or adoption.
- Projectile vomit means I have children who are on this side of heaven, which I have the pleasure and honor of caring for.
Being an eager, willing worker is really all about perspective.

Bringing The BEST To Our Family And Home
We see from the Proverbs 31 Woman that she sought the best (wool and flax), brought it home, was willing to work with her hands, for the benefit of her family and home.
Here’s a question I want you to consider. . .
Are you seeking what God considers valuable, bringing it home, and then working willing and eagerly with our hands for our family and household?
Our best work will lead to profit! – Proverbs 14:23
Our best work will lead to riches! – Proverbs 10:4
Our best work will lead us to plenty! – Proverbs 12:11
I believe, the Proverbs 31 Woman gave her best and worked with what she had. In the end, she wound up having plenty!
She found valuable things, with multiple uses, which could be used to bless her husband, children, family, and home!
You don’t have to have the best of the best (home, car, clothing), but be willing and eager to use what you have to Glorify God. With this mindset and character trait, you will have plenty for you and your household!
Work your land!
Be diligent with work!
Be willing and eager to work!
Watch how God transforms your work, into His best for your life and your family!
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I pray today’s lesson blessed you BIG! We have so much more to glean and learn in our Proverbs 31 Woman Bible Study together!
Be sure to check out the next lesson in The Proverbs 31 Woman Bible Study Series! We’re going to talk about becoming that “good thing” to our husbands and why this is so important to him and our marriage.
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We learned that our work is a gift from God and we should be eager and willing to work. What is your attitude towards work? How does today’s reading change your perspective of work? I’d love to hear your thoughts! You can chime in, by clicking here!
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There are days when I get home from work and believe me, I don’t feel that great. There are days I’m stressed or upset at something that occurred at work. But I’ve noticed that at times I also bring that same frustration home with me. I need to learn to let go and let God. Not worrying about the things I can’t change and enjoy what I do and bring to the workplace. In this I’ll bring joy and blessing to everyone around me.
Thanks for putting this comment out there. It’s a cicular problem I have at work, one in which I keep working at re-adjusting myself to with regards to the part I play in it. And yet, there’s that coworker that….
I sometimes question the task being asked of me. This lesson helped me to realize to remove “self” and just perform the work.
I don’t have a job but I used to have a volunteer job and there was a point that I hated doing the chores. Now I view it differently as volunteering and working for the Lord and ministering to others.
I love the way the Word changes our hearts like this Becky!
This lesson was so helpful for me today! For some years now, God has been dealing with me to study Proverbs 31. I grew up in a broken home and did not have a good example of what a virtuous woman should be. I am married…for 23 years this month! We have a wonderful son who is a senior in high school and I am a critical care cardiac nurse – working on my Bachelor’s. We are extremely busy! I am extremely busy! Up to this point, I had been complaining about not having time to really keep my house the way I like it and fusing at my husband and son about cleaning up after themselves (which is a losing battle- by the way). But God is really dealing with me and changing my stinking thinking through these lessons! I have gotten all wrong all these years! He wants me to look at my family and the work I do as a gift from Him and not a burden! It makes so much sense now why I was always so frustrated. I wasn’t accepting the gift that God has given me! And I was looking to man instead of Him in my labor! Thank you so much for allowing God to use you to enlighten women to their true calling! A virtuous woman! Many blessings to you and your family!
YES!! Look at you GROW in God and His image of YOU!!
I am recently a current housewife after working for so many years. I loved my job & worked as unto the Lord. My office closed, but I feel that as I search for new work, I can be of value to God & my husband at home, that this is where God wants me to be rt now. I haven’t really practiced this at home, but after today’s study, I understand that it is a gift from God too. Wherever He choses me to be, I am thankful. I will have willing hands & be eager! Thank you! Love today’s Study!
I love the way you’ve reflected and introspected on today’s lesson, Mary!
Yes! All of our work is a gift from God. Homemaking and working outside of the home…it’s all a gift!
Thanks for commenting! I’m so glad you’re here!
Everyday I go to work I treat it like it’s the first day of a new job and I have always had the same mindset for 29 years. The total years I have been employed. Great message to work for God only…
Working hard is gift We learn something everyday by working hard taking care of my children, cleaning house, cooking, going to church and helping others but it is a great thing when you working for the Heavenly Father that’s a honor
For the most part, I enjoy the work that I do (career) however at times it seems burdensome (housework) – not realizing I have a house to clean and for that I’m thankful. I now have a new prospective, work is a gift and should be viewed as enjoyable. Thanks for the eye openers. So glad I joined the study!
My prayer
Lord God, please help me to remember that work is a gift from You. Some people desire a job and either can’t find employment or are not physically able. Please forgive me of the times when I seem ungrateful. In Jesus’ name I pray, Amen.
What a beautiful, sincere prayer, Ella!